Older ladies I need your help?

sir,im not old but my mum is actually on her menopausal stage...she still gets her menstrual period but its very rare..and if she gets it its nothing like your wife's,my mom's feeling backpain but never did she have those excessive bleeding or too much blood coming out of her..maybe u shud insist in bringing her to da doctor and it would really help her if your der because if she's too shy to talk about it den maybe you could stand up and say the things dat is needed...